Wanting What You Have

• Do you often find that you are unable to acquire and experience what you want?

• Do the things that you "truly" desire and sometimes ache for seem to always be just outside of your grasp?

• Does the idea of experiencing emotional wellness seem impossible to achieve?

• Have you all but given up on ever experiencing your most heartfelt dreams and desires and written them off as "wishful thinking?"

Before making that unwise choice consider this...

Have you ever considered the fact that your focus on having what you want could be the VERY thing that is keeping you from getting it?

Although that may be a bit confusing initially and seem to go against everything you've ever heard about "consciously creating" desired outcomes, this should assist in clearing things up...

There's a small but powerfully creative difference between having what you want and wanting what you have.

The varying emotions created and experienced based on which of these you choose can mean the difference between fulfilled or unfulfilled desires.

How so?

Everything experienced in your life, regardless of what area that might be is intricately connected with your predominant emotional state. Emotions can serve as incredibly insightful clues with regard to the attainment or non-attainment of consciously desired outcomes.

A desire to have what you want...something you REALLY want, when it doesn't exist in physical form can sometimes create some pretty intense emotions..but not the kind that harmonize with drawing the "desired" outcomes to you which enable you to achieve and experience whatever that desired outcome might be.

In fact it can and will keep it from you and keep you in "wanting" and desiring mode for the rest of your life fully believing that "It just wasn't meant to be."

To begin experiencing far more of those "desired" things, whatever they might be, it's only necessary to develop the ability to begin accepting and expressing heartfelt gratitude for what you already have.

Your willingness to do so serves as an "allowing" of sorts which enables whatever it is that you want to be "attracted" to you.

How could it be that wanting what you have can result in having what you want?

Good question. I'm "grateful" you asked. :)

When you begin to fully grasp and understand that your focused "attention" determines your "intention"...that what your "feeling" determines what you will attract and draw to you, you'll begin to fully understand that having what you want only serves to keep your "attention" on "wanting" which implies NOT having and creates emotions that conflict with receiving and may very well push what you want away and keep it from you.

Wanting what you have on the other hand creates an entirely different emotional response which in turn resonates and projects a "higher" vibrational frequency that is far more in alignment and harmonious with attracting additional "havings" or desired outcomes to you.

Now THAT'S where we really "want" to be isn't it!?!?

So how do you get there? Simply by adopting the mindset of wanting what you already have…developing heartfelt gratitude for where you are now regardless of where that might be and more specifically without any "anxious expectation" of receiving anything more.

Don't misunderstand...

That doesn't mean that you shouldn't hold visions of grander experiences by any means or develop an expectation of "assurance" and "knowing" regarding their appearance, but rather get in a state of NOT wanting, needing or "anxiously" expecting them.

Anxious expectation, want and need are MUCH different experiences than already having and create a much different emotional response. They make you "feel" much different.

Seeds of anxious expectation, want and need can only produce a harvest that correlates with them which is what? More anxious expectation, want and need.

EVERY creation has at it's root a seed. There is ALWAYS an underlying cause for EVERY creation.

Creation makes no judgments or distinctions as to what the harvest will be, it only creates based on the kind and quality of seed that it's provided to work with.

The kind and quality of the seeds you plant determine without fail the kind and quality of harvest you'll reap.

"Having" seeds are of a different kind and quality and produce a much different harvest than want, need and anxious expectation seeds.

Does this mean that you should eliminate your visualizations and affirmations. No!! Properly done visualizing and affirming "preferred" outcomes allow you to get into the mindset of already having the desired outcome…of being there, experiencing, enjoying and savoring whatever it might be that your visualizing and affirming about.

Those are powerful seeds!! In fact...they've already produced the harvest although granted it's only in your minds eye, but that's where it ALL begins.

But what if they don't or aren't producing your "preferences?" What if you have difficulty visualizing and affirming and doing so makes you feel anxious?

My personal belief would be that it's necessary to delve in a little more deeply into discovering who and what you "truly" are, the "infinite" power provided to you to consciously create your reality until you establish that inner knowing…that sense of I AM that ensures that you'll receive them.

Until this is established your visualizations and affirmations could potentially put you in a state that is actually pushing what you have a preference to experience away from you.

How so? If your visualizations and affirmations create "feelings" of discomfort, cause you to ache in a sense because you don't have them, your are not in the mindset or vibrational resonance that will draw them to you.

Visualization and affirmations are designed to put you in the state of mind of already having....of wanting what you already have so to speak.

When you are visualizing effectively you DO have them. Visualizing enables you to create a movie on the movie screen of your mind...of YOUR choosing and enables you to experience the outcome...to have it and experience it right now. It enables you to see what your desired outcome looks and feels like and to experience the fulfillment of already having it.

Affirmations are designed to overwrite the subconscious programming, the often underlying and "unconscious" beliefs that you may have which left unattended, will without fail keep having what you want from you until their replaced.

Visualization and affirmations are necessary tools and if used properly EXTREMELY powerful. But like any tool, they can also be misused and quite literally keep you from having what you want.

If they create feelings of want, need and anxious expectation they are being misused.

Discovering the power behind wanting what you have may make your affirmations and visualizations much more effective.

Want, need, anxious desire and expectation are words and feelings that express not having. Let's start by changing those words to "expanding your experience" or "preferring" them. There's no assumption of want or need but rather a "preference" to experience what you may have been referring to as wants and needs.

Once this preference is stated just unattach from it…not detach…unattach. We detach from undesired experiences…those events, conditions and circumstances that we "prefer" to do without.

We're not wanting to do without our "preferences", or grander experiences, we have them and feel them so that we might experience them…scratch that...so we WILL experience them.

The problem with attachment to any given outcome is that we anxiously "expect" it and as a result when it doesn't show up in the time or the way we think it should we become discouraged which only serves to create additional emotions of fear, doubt and worry that only serve to push it further away rather than draw it to you.

As a set intention…a "preference" that we are unattached to, we get in the mindset of although consciously choosing to experience it, we don't become anxious about it. We just remain unattached…staying alert for the ways and means that present themselves that "feel" good…that resonate with you, and when they do…and they will…take action on them.

Getting in the mindset of heartfelt gratitude for what you already have will provide you with more to be grateful for without fail. Having what you want can and will at best DRAMATICALLY slow the process or keep it from showing up at all.

Regardless of where you are or what you might be currently experiencing in your life, you DO have much to be grateful for. Depending on your current mindset you may have to dig a bit but not very far. Do you have something to eat? Are you breathing? Do you have shoes on your feet and clothes on your back? Do you have friends? Do you have a family?

We ALL have something to express gratitude for.

The key to developing and getting into the mindset of wanting what you have is finding whatever it might be that you already do have to be grateful for. It doesn't matter where you are. If you're able to read this, you have something to be grateful for. Learn to focus your "attention" on gratitude and take focus off of the want and need.

A focus of "attention" on want, need and anxious expectation is stating your "intention" to Source that you would like to stay in want, need and anxious expectation mode...and just as you ask and believe...

Your focus…where you place your attention determines your intention and you WILL receive it.

From a scientific perspective want and need create, resonate and project a vibrational frequency that will and does attract harmonious frequencies that turn or transmute from waves of probability into particles which gravitate toward additional particles and transmute from the unseen, metaphysical or spiritual realm and show up in your life as the events, conditions and circumstances that you experience in your life.

What do the timeless spiritual teachings say…

"Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God." - Philippians 4:6

Your prayers and supplications aren't created and communicated at the "physical" level they're derived and communicated at the unseen, metaphysical, spiritual level…the "seed" level...at the "feeling" level. Your prayers are broadcast in wave frequency form based on feelings and beliefs. These frequencies that you project through your "feelings" and "emotions" serve as your "prayers." What "feelings" does want, need and anxious expectation create? Much different than those of already having your "preferences", wouldn't you agree?

Although prayer can and has proven to be an extremely powerful force, praying verbally with underlying "feelings" of want, need, anxiety, fear doubt and worry is why so many experience what so often "perceived" to be "unanswered prayer." There exists no such thing. EVERY law of nature would have to be violated. Something is ALWAYS being created EVERY second of EVERY day.

You receive EVERYTHING you ask. Source NEVER says no. You only need to become "conscious and aware of how it is that you are asking and become conscious of what it is that you're asking for.

Let's look at another spiritual teaching concerning wanting or "anxious expectation"…

"And why are you anxious about what to wear? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they toil not, neither do they spin. And yet I say to you, that even Solomon in all his glory is not arrayed like one of these."- Matthew 6:28-29

Do the lilies of the field express want, need, fear, worry and anxiety? NO!! They just "allow" nature to take it's course. They aren't anxious about what might happen tomorrow or express fear based on what may have happened in the past and look at what happens. Do they anxiously dig around under ground seeking out what they need to grow attempting to "fix things" due to an "anxious" mindset? NO...they "attract" everything that's required for their growth and survival.

Wanting what you have eliminates anxiety, doubt, fear and worry. It is an "allowing" of sorts that enables those things that you "prefer" to be attracted to you.

Let's look at what another spiritual teacher says…

“Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.” - Lao-Tzu

Is wanting, needing, being anxious about an outcome watering your dream or feeding the need, want and anxiety?

The point being is that it is necessary…crucial in fact that you develop the ability to become grateful for what you already have…plant seeds for your "preferences" and grander experiences, unattach yourself from the outcome, giving no thought to the how and when and they will show up in ways that you may never have dreamed they could.

We have very limited perspectives in relation to the "how" our "preferences" can be fulfilled and the when is ALWAYS in perfect timing.

The how and when aren't our job, only the what. We state the what , believe, express gratitude for it and bingo...there it is.

Creation NEVER fails or wavers. People only "perceive" that it does because they choose to remain "unconscious" and as a result "unaware" of what they are asking for specifically.

Make no mistake...you ALWAYS receive just as you ask. Most are just "unconscious" or "unaware" of what they're asking for. What's worse is that many choose to remain that way their entire lives.

You are different. The fact that you're reading this is evidence that you choose to become conscious…to become aware.

Now you know how. Now you only need to make the choice to apply what you have discovered.

In closing...

Happiness and fulfillment in life isn't achieved by having what you want, "Real Wealth, Happiness and Fuflillment" is achieved and experienced by wanting what you have. All the rest is just an unfolding of the unfailing, immutable and unwavering process of creation…it's nature being to produce an abundance of whatever YOU choose as it always has…always will…always does...and will always continue to.

Become aware of your creative power…consciously state your preferences…express sincere and heartfelt gratitude for your life now…Give thanks for already receiving your "preferences in advance...remain unattached from the outcome…remain alert and take action that "feels" good to you on the ways and means which arrive and you WILL experience a life of fulfillment, joy, inner peace and limitless prosperity in each and every area of your life…certainly, without fail and what would be "perceived" by many as effortlessly.

What I personally believe to be and choose to refer to as Abundance and Happiness.

Oh...before you go I'd like you to know that...I'm grateful for you.

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